Please don't beg!

I am watching in the sidelines as the Irish survivors have to face the ordeal of the pope's imminent visit. 

And it WILL be an ordeal, you will be faced with having to watch nauseating  sycophantic maudlin adulation, as he and his entourage perform their latest PR stunt. 
Some of the survivors who were involved in the English visit have been giving their advice and opinions about what to do, I wouldn't dream of doing that.

They did the same to me at the London visit, as I gave the first speech to begin the protest march of twenty thousand people!

There had been endless press conferences too during that week, and one of the questions I was  constantly asked was  "Would you like to meet the pope"? 

NO!!!!!!!!

Why the hell would I want to meet him? 
The head of the  narcissistic organisation which has been responsible for thousands of damaged lives, heartbreak,  shame, and even deaths.

He and his cohorts  are  well aware of these crimes against humanity,  you would have to be living on another planet not to be,  and they  couldn't care less!

But some of us still think if only they could see him face to face, appeal to his humanity, show him the severity of clergy abuse,  they could change the usual end result which is always- NOTHING! 

So if there is one thing I would say to you it is PLEASE  do not kid yourselves!

Meeting survivors only gives them  more publicity, they then  use them to further their  image, and then do NOTHING!

I was involved in meeting Lombardi in Rome - same shit different day!
 Having to sit with his complete smarmy lack of interest, paying lip service to listening, and then  lying  the following day on  vatican radio about that meeting! 

And then   Nothing!

I was involved in The complaint to the UN rights of the child, where they were found GUILTY of crimes against children, and given directives to comply with. - Nothing! Same shit!

I was involved with the UN complaint against them for crimes against humanity once again found in breach and told by the  UN to comply- -Nothing!

I hear the cry from some victims that they are going to ask him for an apology! WTF!

NO! 

Please don't demean yourselves further, surely you have been subjugated enough?
I for one value my dignity these days, it was too hard won to let go of!


When you see supplicants begging for his attention,often on their knees,  it is similar to the pose adopted by animals in the wild when they are begging for food! They have learned what works!

I have a beautiful Labrador, he is clever too, and has learned  so many tricks, mostly geared towards scrounging!  But one thing I  have never taught him is to "Beg"-  It demeans him!

Remember you are dealing with Narcissists!
The more attention you give them, no matter how negative, the more it feeds into their egos.

The ONLY thing to do with a narcissist is turn your back on them!